Showing posts with label in memory. Show all posts
Showing posts with label in memory. Show all posts

Saturday, April 25, 2020

The Worst Day Of My Life




It’s with an absolutely broken heart that I’m posting to let you know the love of my life died early this morning in his sleep of a massive heart attack. It’s an enormous shock, as he had just gotten a clean bill of health from his doctors a month ago and was laughing and smiling last night when our son dropped by to pick something up and again before he said goodnight to me.

Because of the situation of the pandemic, were unable to have any kind of gathering right now, but when we can, we will.

Do me a favour & hug your loved ones tight, as soon as you can. We think we have the luxury of time & the truth is, we don’t.


Monday, September 11, 2017

Keeping My Promise

Honouring the memory of Kenneth Charles Ledee, lost in WTC II, September 11, 2001.


Friday, June 16, 2017

In Memory



One of the finest men I have ever known is being laid to rest today.
The world will be less without him.

Carlos Daniel Ledee
August 11, 1934-June 12, 2017

You do not go alone; a piece of my heart goes with you.

Friday, October 31, 2014

Hallowe'en 2014


Happy Birthday Gramps. 
I miss you every day.
xox

Saturday, January 25, 2014

Wednesday, September 11, 2013

In Memory


Copyright Lelainia Lloyd 2013


Honouring the memory of 

Kenneth Charles Ledee 

a father, husband, son, uncle & friend
lost in the WTC on 9/11.

Holding the Ledee family close in thought.
May their healing continue.


We pray for the power to be gentle;
the strength to be forgiving;
the patience to be understanding;
And the endurance to accept the consequences
Of holding what we believe to be right.
May we put our trust in
The power of good to overcome evil
And the power of love
To overcome hatred.
We pray for the vision to see
And the faith to believe in a world
Emancipated from violence,
A new world where fear
Shall no longer lead men to commit injustice,
Nor selfishness make them
Bring suffering to others.
Help us to devote our whole life
And thought and energy
To the task of making peace,
Praying always for inspiration
And the power to fulfill the destiny
For which we were created.

~Unknown






Friday, January 25, 2013

In Memory



Kenneth George Chick
October 31, 1921-January 25th, 2004

 You are ever present in my thoughts and in my heart.
I miss you Gramps, every single day.

I'll catch your smile on someone's face,
your whisper in the wind's embrace
through diamond skies and stars and dreams
I find your love in everything.

The sun, the sky, the rolling sea
all conspire to comfort me,
from sorrow's edge life's beauty seems
to find you love in everything.

Wednesday, October 31, 2012

On This Day

In Memory

Kenneth George Chick
October 31, 1921-January 25, 2004

Happy Birthday Gramps. 
This will forever and always be your day.
Thanks for switching the lights on & off in the studio yesterday 
to let me know you're just on the other side.
xox

Tuesday, September 11, 2012

In Memory


In loving memory of
Kenneth Charles Ledee
Lost in the WTC on September 11, 2001.

Sending my love across the miles today to the Ledee family. 
You are ever in my thoughts.

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

In Memory


Kenneth George Chick
October 31, 1921-January 25, 2004
I miss you every day. xox


"I'll catch your smile on someone's face,
Your whisper in the wind's embrace
Through diamond stars and songs and dreams
I find your love in everything

The sun, the sky, the rolling sea
All conspire to comfort me.
From sorrow's edge life's beauty seems
To find your love in everything.

I've come to trust the hope it brings
To find your love in everything.
Even as I fall apart,
Even through my shattered heart,
I'll catch your smile on someone's face
.....amazing grace."

~Beth Neilsen Chapman

Friday, December 23, 2011

The Santa Secret


Years ago, my Grandparents came out west and moved to a small town in the mountains, on a lake. When I say small town, picture 10 streets, a general store that was also the liquor commission and post office all in one, a 9 hole golf course and a doctor's office.

This small town grew up around a mine and was full of characters. The town's doctor, Dr. S, was an odd duck. She cared for her patients, but beyond the office, in my experience, she was not friendly. When I'd visit my family, I'd often run into her in the General Store and me being an outgoing and polite person, would greet her with "Hello Dr. S, how are you?" Not once would she say hello back. It seemed rather rude.

This small town had lots of local activities and traditions, some of which I participated in when I was in town visiting my family. One year, the town organized caroling and my husband, son and I joined in. As the evening wore on, we found ourselves at Dr. S's house. Someone knew her favourite carol, so we started singing it. The lights were on in her home and we could see her clearly through the window. Unlike everyone else on our route, she did not come to the door to greet us. She didn't acknowledge us at all! Instead she disappeared into a back room and eventually, we gave up and moved on. From that point on, I really didn't like her.

One year, about 2 weeks before Xmas, my Gram got a call from a neighbour asking if her great grandson (my son) would be in town for the holidays and if so, how old he was. She told them yes, we were coming and her great grandson was 4. When we arrived, Gram took me aside and explained that the town was having a Santa and he would be bringing gifts to all the kids in town on Xmas Eve.

The next night, which was Xmas Eve, the phone rang and we were told to keep an eye out for the Santa-he was on his way. We quickly bundled my son up in his snowsuit and sent him outside to build a snowman, keeping an eye on him through the window. A few minutes passed and then an amazing thing happened: A horse drawn sleigh, pulled by two beautiful Clydesdales, their harnesses covered in bells, came up over the hill, rounded the corner and stopped in front of the house. Santa hopped out and grabbed his pack. He greeted my son, asked him if he'd been a good boy. (He said he had.) Santa dug into his pack and handed him several gifts. Then he hopped back into his sleigh and was off.

My son came flying into the house, eyes wide as saucers, hollering "Mummy, Santa come!" He told us the whole story of Santa coming in his sleigh (he didn't know we were watching from the window) and showed us the gifts with his name on them. We told him he could open them. Inside was a ship in a bottle, some candy and chocolate and an animal calendar. He was thrilled. For all of us, that moment was golden, filled with the magic and wonder of Xmas, as seen through the eyes of a child. It's a memory we will always treasure. The Santa continued to come, year after year, always bringing joy and gifts to the children.

Several years later, in February 2006, tragedy struck. An elderly gentleman was driving Dr. S home, along the twisty, snow covered mountain roads when his truck slid off the road and plunged down an embankment towards the lake. As the truck plunged downward, it struck a tree, which snapped on impact, falling on top of the roof of the truck, killing Dr. S instantly. The driver was badly injured, but he survived.

After that, the Santa stopped coming.

What no one knew until well after she was gone was that Dr. S was the one behind the Santa. Her husband had died several years before of cancer and she had no family in Canada of her own, so somehow she came up with the idea to buy gifts for all the children in town. She hired the man who owned the horses (they were logging horses) to be the Santa and deliver her gifts anonymously.

I think of her every Xmas Eve and wonder why she chose to isolate herself from people the way she did. Maybe she was just painfully shy outside of her office. Maybe she was just peopled out and needed to keep her downtime to herself. Or maybe she was just grieving the loss of her husband and didn't want to get close to anyone. I'll never know.

What I do know is that Dr. S tirelessly served her community for over 20 years and deep down, she had a kind heart. It's that heart that led her to create magic for my son and all the children in her little town and because of her, our family will always have beautiful memories of our Xmases there.

Someday my son will tell his children about the Santa who visited him by horse drawn sleigh, in a tiny snow covered town in the mountains, on a lake and in this way, her memory will live on.

Friday, November 11, 2011

11-11-11

Remembrance

In honour of my Grandfather,
Kenneth George Chick
who served as Homeguard with the RCAF during WWII

&

For our Canadian servicemen and women,
both young and old,
whose sacrifices keep us safe and free

THANK YOU

May those of you on active duty 
return safely to your loved ones.



Monday, October 31, 2011

This Will Always Be His Day


Happy Birthday to my beloved Gramps
who would have turned 90 today,
on Hallowe'en.

I miss you every single day.
xoxo

Sunday, September 11, 2011

10 Years Come & Gone


Kenneth Charles Ledee
September 11, 2001
Forever loved & deeply missed.

"What we have once enjoyed we can never lose.
All that we love deeply becomes a part of us."
                                             
~ Helen Keller

I am thinking of my precious friends, the Ledee family with much love on this day and always.



*****

Ten years ago, I inscribed the following by hand on the back of the 9/11 quilt I made. It hangs in my livingroom to this day. The words are as meaningful to me now, as they were then.



"We pray for the power to be gentle;

The strength to be forgiving;

The patience to be understanding;

And the endurance to accept the consequences

Of holding what we believe to be right.

May we put our trust in

The power of good to overcome evil

And the power of love

To overcome hatred.

We pray for the vision to see

And the faith to believe in a world

Emancipated from violence,

A new world where fear

Shall no longer lead men to commit injustice,

Nor selfishness make them

Bring suffering to others.

Help us to devote our whole life

And thought and energy

To the task of making peace,

Praying always for the inspiration

And the power to fulfill the destiny

For which we were created."

~Unknown

Friday, June 17, 2011

In Memory Of Betty Fox

Farewell
Copyright Lelainia Lloyd/Tattered Edge 2011

 
Sadly, this morning, Betty Fox, mother of Canadian hero, Terry Fox passed away.

After the 2010 Games were over, I got a dvd in the mail from Vanoc that was specially made for the Blue Jackets as a thank you. It contained in part, behind the scenes footage of the Games. One clip showed Betty and Rolly presenting the Terry Fox Award to two deserving Olympic athletes, one of whom was Canadian figure skater Joannie Rochette who suffered the crushing loss of her mother at the beginning of the Games.

Just before the presentation, Betty met Joannie. The clip shows Betty enveloping Joannie in a motherly hug and offering words of comfort. I think that in essence was who Betty was-warm, genuine and caring which is why so many people in Canada and the world over love and respect her so deeply. Her passing today feels like losing an irreplaceable part of our Canadian family and it weighs very heavy in our hearts.

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Fox family at this sad time.
Godspeed Mrs. Fox, you will always be deeply missed.

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

In Memory

  Kenneth George Chick
October 31, 1921-January 25, 2004 

I miss you every day.

Sunday, October 31, 2010

October 31st

This post is in honour of my beloved Gramps, whose birthday is today, Hallowe'en. If he were still with us, he would be turning 89 today.
Happy Birthday Gramps. I miss you every single day.

Hallowe'en Circa 1975

My earliest Hallowe'en memory was the year my Gramps took me out trick or treating around to the neighbouring farms. In those days, we knew all the neighbours and in the culture of true Manitobans, they were all considered members of our extended family. Everyone was either an "aunt" or "uncle".

That Hallowe'en, my grandparents bought me a Bugs Bunny costume, which in the late 70's consisted of a thin jumpsuit that tied at the neck with Bugs' body printed on in, (in blue if memory serves) and a plastic mask of Bugs' face and ears held on by a flimsy elastic stapled to either side. Oh look! Here's a pic of the exact same costume!

Now if you know anything about Winnipeg and the surrounding area, you'd know that traditionally Hallowe'en night was usually pegged as the first snowfall of the season which often turns into a blizzard. It means that your choice in costumes is dictated by the weather. Either you wore a costume that was big enough to fit your bulky winter coat (or in some cases, snowsuit) underneath or you had to put your coat over top and then "flash" your neighbours so they could see your costume before they gave you candy. Fortunately, my snowsuit fit under the jumpsuit piece of my costume, so I looked like Bugs Bunny while staying toasty warm.

The farm houses were set a fair piece back from the highway, so Gramps loaded me up in the Funcraft (a sort of pre-minivan van-all the room of a minivan, minus the seats) and drove me from farm to farm. The Funcraft had a sliding door on the side, so he left the door locked open and I sat in the opening with my legs dangling out while he drove. Thinking about that now makes me laugh. Can you imagine tooling around in the dark, on a rural highway with a child of 4 sitting in the open door, legs dangling these days? Um...yeah...no...

Anyway, we drove up and down the highway, stopping at the end of each driveway and I would hop out and run up the drive to the house. I'd be almost out of breath because those were looooooog driveways, but somehow I'd manage to belt out "Hallowe'en Apples!!" (Kids in Manitoba say this, not "trick or treat". I don't know why, we just do. My husband thinks we're weird.) Someone I knew would come to the door and pretend they didn't know who I was and then dole out the candy. I of course was thrilled to be putting one over on them and the candy was just the bonus. I'd say thank you and then run back down the drive and hop into the Funcraft and we'd be off to the next house.

My quest for goodies ended with a trip to Don & Lou's house, our next door neighbours. Don & Lou had the longest drive of all. They built their house on the back end of their 5 1/2 acre property, on the river's edge, so Gramps drove me right to their front door. (Walking, it would have taken me about 20 minutes to get up the drive.) I hopped out of the van and hollered "Hallowe'en Apples!" at the house and Don came to the door. He went through the motions of pretending he didn't know who I was and teasing me before he gave up the candy. ALL of it! I loved Don.

I love Hallowe'en. It's my favourite holiday.

Saturday, September 11, 2010

Remembering

In honour of
Kenneth Charles Ledee
Deeply loved and sadly missed, this day and every day.

***

We pray for the power to be gentle;
The strength to be forgiving;
The patience to be understanding;
And the endurance to accept the consequences
Of holding what we believe to be right.

May we put our trust in
The power of good to overcome evil
And the power of love
To overcome hatred.

We pray for the vision to see
And the faith to believe in a world
Emancipated from violence,
A new world where fear
Shall no longer lead men to commit injustice,
Nor selfishness make them
Bring suffering to others.

Help us to devote our whole life
And thought and energy
To the task of making peace,
Praying always for the inspiration
And the power to fulfill the destiny
For which we were created.

~Author Unknown

***

For my beloved friends Anna & Carlos & the Ledee family,
across the miles, with all my love.

Monday, January 25, 2010

In Loving Memory

Kenneth George Chick
October 31, 1921-January 25, 2004

I'll catch your smile on someone's face,
Your whisper in the wind's embrace
Through dimond stars and songs and dreams
I find your love in everything.

The sun, the sky, the rolling sea
All conspire to comfort me
From sorrow's edge life's beauty seems
To find your love in everything.

I've come to trust the hope it brings
To find your love in everything
Even as I fall apart,
Even through my shattered heart
I'll catch your smile on someone's face...
...amazing grace.

~Beth Neilsen Chapman

Sunday, January 25, 2009

For My Gramps


In loving memory of

Kenneth George Chick


October 31, 1921 - January 25, 2004



"I'll catch your smile on someones face

Your whisper in the wind's embrace

Through diamond stars and songs and dreams

I find your love in everything

The sun, the sky, the rolling sea

All conspire to comfort me

From sorrow's edge life's beauty seems

To find your love in everything

I've come to trust the hope it brings

To find your love in everything

Even as I fall apart,

Even through my shattered heart

I'll catch your smile on someones face.....amazing grace."

~Beth Nielsen Chapman